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“You find peace not by rearranging the circumstances of your life but by realizing who you are at the deepest level” Eckhart Tolle
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Can we be OK with not feeling OK?
I'm talking here about the nature of the human experience, where our feelings and low moods really come from, and if we can be OK with...
Lindsey Elliott
Nov 14, 20191 min read
How our experience is created within us.
In this video I am discussing how our experience of the outside world, events, people and life is created within us, and doesn't come...
Lindsey Elliott
Oct 24, 20191 min read
Self-adhesive labels and the Manager in your head
I want you to imagine, if you will, a light bulb covered in hundreds of sticky notes. Written on the notes is variety of words such as:...
Lindsey Elliott
Oct 11, 20195 min read
Rushing, busyness and overwhelm
In this video I discuss where our experience of feeling busy, rushed and overwhelmed with what we have to do really comes from. Please do...
Lindsey Elliott
Oct 3, 20191 min read
Thoughts are like tea bags!
I love the simplicity and ordinary-ness of this way of seeing how our thinking works. We are led to believe that what we think has to be...
Lindsey Elliott
Sep 27, 20192 min read
How the mind works and our true nature.
#lindseyelliottwellbeingcoach #resiliencecoach #wellbeingcoach #brightonlifecoach #threeprinciplescoach #insideoutcoaching #howlifeworks...
Lindsey Elliott
Sep 20, 20191 min read
Being human: understanding our emotions.
Like all of life, we humans are a paradox. We are both human (with a physical body, senses, thoughts, beliefs, emotions), as well as...
Lindsey Elliott
Sep 12, 20194 min read
The self we are trying to fix doesn't exist.
This post is for all you self-help addicts out there…. This sort of quote used to confuse the hell out of me! And yet some years later...
Lindsey Elliott
Sep 10, 20192 min read
What if, what you think isn't personal?
I’m going to say something potentially controversial, but also potentially liberating. What if what you think, the thoughts that pass...
Lindsey Elliott
Sep 9, 20192 min read
What if, the more thinking we have about something, the more we'll struggle?
I am sure you are like me, and have areas of your life that seem to flow easily. Yet there are others where you struggle to make changes....
Lindsey Elliott
Jul 26, 20193 min read
Is the robot mind running your life?
We can think of our robot mind as the flavour of thinking that tells us we ‘need/should/must’ do anything. It would have us believe we...
Lindsey Elliott
Jul 26, 20192 min read
Our experience of the same thing changes all the time
One of the things my coaching clients sometimes struggle to fully accept at first, is the inside-out nature of how our experience is...
Lindsey Elliott
Jul 26, 20192 min read
What if self-evaluation is the source of your unhappiness?
I have to fess up. I am a recovering self-evaluation/self-help addict. Over time I have had a series of insights that has led me to see...
Lindsey Elliott
Jul 26, 20192 min read
Expectations and disappointment
It is completely OK to be disappointed. It is completely OK to have expectations about life, others, your circumstances. And it is really...
Lindsey Elliott
Jul 26, 20192 min read
What the weather can teach us about the nature of experience
It was raining here this morning in Brighton, and I was thrilled to have another opportunity to See that our experience of life works...
Lindsey Elliott
Jul 26, 20192 min read
A helpful metaphor
I hope you find this a helpful metaphor which points to how the human experience and emotions work. A cup can hold so many things. It can...
Lindsey Elliott
Jul 26, 20192 min read
Can we get comfortable with discomfort?
When we feel discomfort within ourselves, is it possible to let it be and not try to fix it? Whether this is emotional discomfort,...
Lindsey Elliott
Jul 25, 20192 min read
Nothing to fix
What if you REALLY knew this to be true? How much would it radically change your life? If you are a serial self-improver (like I was and...
Lindsey Elliott
Jul 25, 20192 min read
In a low mood? This blog will help.
I’m sure most of us have been to a circus or fairground, and stood before the curved mirrors that distort your image. Some look quite...
Lindsey Elliott
Jul 25, 20192 min read
You are not your thoughts.
If we believe that what we think about ourselves is true, then it becomes easy to believe we are broken in some way, damaged by life or...
Lindsey Elliott
Jul 25, 20192 min read
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