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“You find peace not by rearranging the circumstances of your life but by realizing who you are at the deepest level” Eckhart Tolle
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This Might Ruffle Feathers... But Your Feelings Aren’t Their Fault
In this video, I bust a myth that many of us have grown up believing: that other people are responsible for how we feel. This is often a sticking point for many of my 1:1 clients—and understandably so. When someone says something hurtful or behaves badly, it feels like they’re causing our emotional reaction. But is that the full picture? I explore: Why your mood plays such a big role in how you experience other people’s words or actions How believing something about yourself
Lindsey Elliott
Aug 8, 20251 min read


Want to avoid certain reactions in people? Here's a relationship tip to help!
We engage in all sorts of people pleasing behaviours if we try to manage the reactions of others. But what if we don't have to do this? Enjoy this quick video to help navigate relationships with more ease. Like this video? Please like and subscribe to my YouTube channel . Please sign up to my mailing list to receive new videos as they are released, exclusive offers AND my free e-book ‘Navigating Change: 3 Keys For Success’. If you are ready for freedom from people pleasing
Lindsey Elliott
Oct 19, 20241 min read


Releasing Others (video three of a four-part series)
Have you ever felt like your mental to-do list is endlessly expanding, leaving you feeling overwhelmed and drained? Imagine if you could lighten that load and reclaim your time and energy for what truly matters. In this transformative four-part series, we embark on a journey to explore major life areas that often consume our precious resources when we believe we must manage or control them. Discover a New Perspective Each video is designed to guide you through releasing t
Lindsey Elliott
May 8, 20242 min read


Confidently Saying No (video two of a four-part series)
Unlocking More Time and Ease in Your Life: A Four-Part Video Series Have you ever felt like your mental to-do list is endlessly expanding, leaving you feeling overwhelmed and drained? Imagine if you could lighten that load and reclaim your time and energy for what truly matters. In this transformative four-video series, we embark on a journey to explore major life areas that often consume our precious resources when we believe we must manage or control them. Discover a New Pe
Lindsey Elliott
May 3, 20242 min read


The most important relationship tip!
If you try this one thing, it could significantly help harmony within your relationships. Leave me a comment below if you give it a go, or if you recognise you think you know what someone else is thinking. Like this video? Please like and subscribe to my YouTube channel . Please sign up to my mailing list to receive new videos as they are released, exclusive offers AND my free e-book Lessen Your Stress. If you are ready for change in your relationship, work with me in my Cha
Lindsey Elliott
Sep 20, 20231 min read


Busting Parenting BS: You are only as happy as your unhappiest child
This is one of many BS things we hear on social media, that I feel is unhelpful to both parent and child, and is untrue....in this video...
Lindsey Elliott
Sep 20, 20231 min read


Freedom from people pleasing is easy!
What if freedom from people pleasing is easy? When we clear up a simple misunderstanding about where our feelings are actually coming,...
Lindsey Elliott
Sep 12, 20231 min read


Weird but true fact about conflict or arguments in relationships.
Like this video? Please like and subscribe to my YouTube channel. Please sign up to my mailing list to receive new videos as they are...
Lindsey Elliott
Jul 21, 20231 min read
Ask Me Anything: feeling triggered by other people.
PLEASE NOTE: I had technical issues with the recording of this video. The sound and video do not sync and so you won't be able to see my...
Lindsey Elliott
Jul 7, 20231 min read


Where does a sense of worthiness come from?
We innocently believe that our sense of worthiness or good enough-ness comes from outside of us, or from what others think of us. But...
Lindsey Elliott
Jun 29, 20231 min read


Self-worth and people pleasing
We innocently believe that if we can keep everyone happy, and liking us, we'll feel good about ourselves. However searching for a sense...
Lindsey Elliott
Jun 29, 20231 min read


Is it selfish to put your own needs ahead of others?
A quick video dispelling the myth that if we put our own needs before others, this means we are selfish. Like this video? Please like and...
Lindsey Elliott
Jun 29, 20231 min read


People pleasing: Discover some surprising truths!
Many of us identify as a ‘people pleaser’ or struggle with saying no. We often believe that in order to be a ‘good person' we have to put...
Lindsey Elliott
May 25, 20232 min read


Endless worry about the future and why it won't help.
Endless worry about the future, or repeatedly worrying about the same thing, can seem like it might produce a solution in the end. But...
Lindsey Elliott
May 19, 20231 min read


Debunking the myth: worry doesn't equal love or define who you are
"I am a worrier", or "I worry about 'X' all the time" is something I hear A LOT in my work as a coach. People are often somewhat...
Lindsey Elliott
May 17, 20231 min read


Ask Me Anything: I dread becoming unwell and being unable to look after my kids
Susan has been grappling with persistent worries about her health for quite some time. However, these concerns have now escalated to a...
Lindsey Elliott
May 17, 20232 min read


Ask Me Anything: dealing with criticism from others
Carla finds it really difficult when she receives criticism from others, and finds she thinks about it over and over. She wishes she...
Lindsey Elliott
Apr 26, 20231 min read


Are you harsh or critical of yourself or others? This question might help.
I offer a question to consider when you find yourself being critical or harsh with yourself or others. Really consider if this is true?...
Lindsey Elliott
Apr 20, 20231 min read


Ask Me Anything: annoyed and frustrated by my husband's behaviour.
Jodene wishes that she could stop thinking about her husband's behaviour and 'bad' habits. She sees that her mind is going crazy with...
Lindsey Elliott
Apr 19, 20231 min read


One of the most powerful questions we can ask ourselves.
When we are having a hard time with something in our lives, are in conflict over something, or are stuck in a habit or addiction, we have...
Lindsey Elliott
Mar 8, 20231 min read

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