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“You find peace not by rearranging the circumstances of your life but by realizing who you are at the deepest level” Eckhart Tolle
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Lindsey Elliott
Jun 29, 20231 min read
Self-worth and people pleasing
We innocently believe that if we can keep everyone happy, and liking us, we'll feel good about ourselves. However searching for a sense...
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Lindsey Elliott
Jun 29, 20231 min read
Is it selfish to put your own needs ahead of others?
A quick video dispelling the myth that if we put our own needs before others, this means we are selfish. Like this video? Please like and...
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Lindsey Elliott
May 25, 20232 min read
People pleasing: Discover some surprising truths!
Many of us identify as a ‘people pleaser’ or struggle with saying no. We often believe that in order to be a ‘good person' we have to put...
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Lindsey Elliott
May 19, 20231 min read
Endless worry about the future and why it won't help.
Endless worry about the future, or repeatedly worrying about the same thing, can seem like it might produce a solution in the end. But...
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Lindsey Elliott
May 17, 20231 min read
Debunking the myth: worry doesn't equal love or define who you are
"I am a worrier", or "I worry about 'X' all the time" is something I hear A LOT in my work as a coach. People are often somewhat...
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Lindsey Elliott
May 17, 20232 min read
Ask Me Anything: I dread becoming unwell and being unable to look after my kids
Susan has been grappling with persistent worries about her health for quite some time. However, these concerns have now escalated to a...
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Lindsey Elliott
Apr 26, 20231 min read
Ask Me Anything: dealing with criticism from others
Carla finds it really difficult when she receives criticism from others, and finds she thinks about it over and over. She wishes she...
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Lindsey Elliott
Apr 20, 20231 min read
Are you harsh or critical of yourself or others? This question might help.
I offer a question to consider when you find yourself being critical or harsh with yourself or others. Really consider if this is true?...
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Lindsey Elliott
Apr 19, 20231 min read
Ask Me Anything: annoyed and frustrated by my husband's behaviour.
Jodene wishes that she could stop thinking about her husband's behaviour and 'bad' habits. She sees that her mind is going crazy with...
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Lindsey Elliott
Mar 8, 20231 min read
One of the most powerful questions we can ask ourselves.
When we are having a hard time with something in our lives, are in conflict over something, or are stuck in a habit or addiction, we have...
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Lindsey Elliott
Mar 7, 20231 min read
Why feelings of low self-esteem, and insecurity looks like a problem to be fixed
When we feel insecure, or bad about ourselves, this can look like it's something that we need to sort out. We can innocently think that...
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Lindsey Elliott
Mar 2, 20231 min read
Dealing with expectations and disappointments
Having expectations and then feeling disappointed if they don't come to fruition seems part and parcel of being human. Sometimes we can...
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Lindsey Elliott
Jan 5, 20231 min read
Feeling responsible for other people's feelings or happiness
Thinking that we are responsible for how other people feel creates a lot of suffering, and worry in life. We end up saying yes when we...
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Lindsey Elliott
Oct 3, 20221 min read
Coming to terms with disappointment -Changeable Podcast with Dr Amy Johnson
Changeable podcast is such a fantastic resource to support change, and seeing life in a whole new way. I was delighted to be a special...
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Lindsey Elliott
Apr 23, 20201 min read
Trouble with relationships?
Are you struggling more than usual with your close relationships during lock down? I offer a fresh perspective about where our emotions...
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Lindsey Elliott
Jan 16, 20201 min read
How our children can't make us feel anything.
When our children misbehave or don't listen, it can be really seductive to believe that this is causing our feelings of stress, anger,...
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Lindsey Elliott
Dec 19, 20191 min read
Help with tricky relationships
I explore here what I have seen about conflict within relationships, that I hope will be useful for you - How we all live in different...
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Lindsey Elliott
Oct 24, 20191 min read
How our experience is created within us.
In this video I am discussing how our experience of the outside world, events, people and life is created within us, and doesn't come...
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Lindsey Elliott
Oct 11, 20191 min read
All about emotions and feelings.
In this video I talk about emotions and feelings: where they really come from, and what to do (or not!) about them. Please feel free to...
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Lindsey Elliott
Jul 26, 20193 min read
What if, the more thinking we have about something, the more we'll struggle?
I am sure you are like me, and have areas of your life that seem to flow easily. Yet there are others where you struggle to make changes....
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