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“You find peace not by rearranging the circumstances of your life but by realizing who you are at the deepest level” Eckhart Tolle
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Ask Me Anything: I struggle to choose to do the 'positive' things in my life.
It's a common human experience to sometimes struggle to choose to do the 'positive' things we know are good for us. It can seem like we...
Lindsey Elliott
Jun 21, 20231 min read


Breaking the illusion: the impersonal nature of feelings
What if it were true that our thoughts and feelings might not be as personal or significant as we believe them to be? In this video, I...
Lindsey Elliott
Jun 8, 20231 min read


What if thoughts and feelings aren't personal, or meaningful about who we are?
What if it were true that our thoughts and feelings might not be as personal or significant as we believe them to be? In a brief and...
Lindsey Elliott
Jun 7, 20231 min read


Beliefs aren't 'real'!
It's often our beliefs about ourselves, others and the world that cause us suffering. But belief aren't 'real'. They may feel very real...
Lindsey Elliott
May 25, 20231 min read


People pleasing: Discover some surprising truths!
Many of us identify as a ‘people pleaser’ or struggle with saying no. We often believe that in order to be a ‘good person' we have to put...
Lindsey Elliott
May 25, 20232 min read


Ask Me Anything: I dread becoming unwell and being unable to look after my kids
Susan has been grappling with persistent worries about her health for quite some time. However, these concerns have now escalated to a...
Lindsey Elliott
May 17, 20232 min read


Could it be that our own self-evaluation and ‘improvement’ is what's making us unhappy?
When we focus the spotlight of our attention on the question 'How am I doing?' out of dissatisfaction with ourselves, it inevitably leads...
Lindsey Elliott
May 11, 20231 min read


One of the kindest things we can do for ourselves.
One of the kindest things we can do for ourselves is not to believe our own thinking. I know this might seem kinda crazy to suggest this....
Lindsey Elliott
May 4, 20231 min read


Self-improvement, goals and insecurity.
When we tie our self-esteem to our achievements, actions, or goals, we're walking on fragile ground. We have to keep striving to meet...
Lindsey Elliott
May 4, 20231 min read


Guest episode on 'Inner Peace and Other Cool Sh*t' podcast
I had a blast recording a podcast episode with the truly delightful, and oh-so-fun and wise @siobhanfriel. In the episode we explored:...
Lindsey Elliott
May 2, 20231 min read


Ask Me Anything: dealing with criticism from others
Carla finds it really difficult when she receives criticism from others, and finds she thinks about it over and over. She wishes she...
Lindsey Elliott
Apr 26, 20231 min read


What if our feelings & emotions are as impersonal as the weather?!
We innocently tend to give our feelings and emotions a lot of meaning. It's part of the job of a mind to apply meaning or a story about...
Lindsey Elliott
Apr 24, 20231 min read


Are you harsh or critical of yourself or others? This question might help.
I offer a question to consider when you find yourself being critical or harsh with yourself or others. Really consider if this is true?...
Lindsey Elliott
Apr 20, 20231 min read


All addiction works the same way- part one
If we believe that our addiction, or habit, is ‘worse’ than other people it can lead to us to feel isolated, separate and lonely…which...
Lindsey Elliott
Apr 20, 20231 min read


You are not your mind!
All sorts of suffering comes from believing who we are is the content of our thinking....I experience anxious thinking therefore 'I am an...
Lindsey Elliott
Apr 18, 20231 min read


Ask Me Anything: frozen in fear about setting up my business
Sandra asks me to speak about her feeling frozen in fear about setting up her business. She doesn't know how to get clients into her...
Lindsey Elliott
Mar 30, 20231 min read


The real reason you procrastinate
There is almost always a belief lurking underneath, or before, procrastination. Look for the belief and you can unlock the...
Lindsey Elliott
Mar 30, 20231 min read


Ask Me Anything: Anxious about going for a job promotion
Steve has sent in an 'Ask Me Anything' question. He has the opportunity to apply for a promotion at work, that he knows he is capable of,...
Lindsey Elliott
Mar 22, 20231 min read


Why our brains think anxiety and worry is useful
One of the things that helped me so much with my own experience of anxiety and worry, is understanding how the primary function of the...
Lindsey Elliott
Mar 20, 20231 min read


A crazy statistic about the mind, and why this means we don't have to listen to our own thinking
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Lindsey Elliott
Mar 8, 20231 min read

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