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“You find peace not by rearranging the circumstances of your life but by realizing who you are at the deepest level” Eckhart Tolle
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Can we be OK with not feeling OK?
I'm talking here about the nature of the human experience, where our feelings and low moods really come from, and if we can be OK with...
Lindsey Elliott
Nov 14, 20191 min read
How our experience is created within us.
In this video I am discussing how our experience of the outside world, events, people and life is created within us, and doesn't come...
Lindsey Elliott
Oct 24, 20191 min read
All about emotions and feelings.
In this video I talk about emotions and feelings: where they really come from, and what to do (or not!) about them. Please feel free to...
Lindsey Elliott
Oct 11, 20191 min read
Self-adhesive labels and the Manager in your head
I want you to imagine, if you will, a light bulb covered in hundreds of sticky notes. Written on the notes is variety of words such as:...
Lindsey Elliott
Oct 11, 20195 min read
Rushing, busyness and overwhelm
In this video I discuss where our experience of feeling busy, rushed and overwhelmed with what we have to do really comes from. Please do...
Lindsey Elliott
Oct 3, 20191 min read
Thoughts are like tea bags!
I love the simplicity and ordinary-ness of this way of seeing how our thinking works. We are led to believe that what we think has to be...
Lindsey Elliott
Sep 27, 20192 min read
Being human: understanding our emotions.
Like all of life, we humans are a paradox. We are both human (with a physical body, senses, thoughts, beliefs, emotions), as well as...
Lindsey Elliott
Sep 12, 20194 min read
The self we are trying to fix doesn't exist.
This post is for all you self-help addicts out there…. This sort of quote used to confuse the hell out of me! And yet some years later...
Lindsey Elliott
Sep 10, 20192 min read
What if, the more thinking we have about something, the more we'll struggle?
I am sure you are like me, and have areas of your life that seem to flow easily. Yet there are others where you struggle to make changes....
Lindsey Elliott
Jul 26, 20193 min read
Our experience of the same thing changes all the time
One of the things my coaching clients sometimes struggle to fully accept at first, is the inside-out nature of how our experience is...
Lindsey Elliott
Jul 26, 20192 min read
The self-correcting mechanism of the mind
On a day to day basis there is really very little we have to do to keep our bodies running. We have to eat, drink, move, and sleep but...
Lindsey Elliott
Jul 26, 20192 min read
What the weather can teach us about the nature of experience
It was raining here this morning in Brighton, and I was thrilled to have another opportunity to See that our experience of life works...
Lindsey Elliott
Jul 26, 20192 min read
A helpful metaphor
I hope you find this a helpful metaphor which points to how the human experience and emotions work. A cup can hold so many things. It can...
Lindsey Elliott
Jul 26, 20192 min read
Train of thought
We can view our thoughts and thinking as like a train pulling into the station. We may have a certain thought, let’s say “I’m not good...
Lindsey Elliott
Jul 25, 20192 min read
In a low mood? This blog will help.
I’m sure most of us have been to a circus or fairground, and stood before the curved mirrors that distort your image. Some look quite...
Lindsey Elliott
Jul 25, 20192 min read
You are not your thoughts.
If we believe that what we think about ourselves is true, then it becomes easy to believe we are broken in some way, damaged by life or...
Lindsey Elliott
Jul 25, 20192 min read
Resilience is built in
Imagine if you will that you are holding a cork under the water by the side of a lake. If you let go of the cork, its natural trajectory...
Lindsey Elliott
Jul 25, 20192 min read
Thoughts are the guests in the house of our mind.
"Thoughts are the guests in our mind but we don't have to sit down and have a cup of tea with them!" In a coaching session this morning...
Lindsey Elliott
Jul 25, 20192 min read
What if happiness is about subtraction, rather than addition to our lives?
What if the key to happiness is about subtracting something from our life, rather than adding to it? What if “10 Steps To Happiness”...
Lindsey Elliott
Jul 22, 20193 min read
Chattering teeth of the mind
In this video we explore another metaphor for how the mind works. This metaphor is especially helpful if you are in the process of...
Lindsey Elliott
Jun 27, 20191 min read
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