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“You find peace not by rearranging the circumstances of your life but by realizing who you are at the deepest level” Eckhart Tolle
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We don't have to 'build' our confidence and self-esteem.
One of the greatest myths that bobs about on socials is that we need to 'build' our self-esteem, confidence and worth. Not only is this...
Lindsey Elliott
Oct 20, 20231 min read
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Feeling insecure and responsible for other peoples' feelings.
Feeling insecure and believing we are responsible for other people's feelings often go hand-in-hand. But it doesn't have to be this way....
Lindsey Elliott
Oct 19, 20231 min read
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Freedom and permission to make mistakes.
People who don't like making mistakes often believe their self-esteem is directly impacted by how well we do in life. But what if this...
Lindsey Elliott
Oct 17, 20231 min read
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Thinking you are insecure and have low self-esteem doesn't mean you are!
When we experience a lot of insecure thoughts about ourselves, or have think we aren't good enough, we can believe this means we ARE...
Lindsey Elliott
Oct 13, 20231 min read
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Ask Me Anything: I'm anxious and not reaching my potential because I stutter.
This question was sent to me by someone in my community, looking for some help and support with her experience of stuttering. This video...
Lindsey Elliott
Oct 12, 20231 min read
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Do you worry about what other people think of you?
Worrying about what other people think of you is a common symptom when we feel insecure and have low self-esteem. There is a 'reason' for...
Lindsey Elliott
Oct 11, 20231 min read
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The most important relationship tip!
If you try this one thing, it could significantly help harmony within your relationships. Leave me a comment below if you give it a go,...
Lindsey Elliott
Sep 20, 20231 min read
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Busting Parenting BS: You are only as happy as your unhappiest child
This is one of many BS things we hear on social media, that I feel is unhelpful to both parent and child, and is untrue....in this video...
Lindsey Elliott
Sep 20, 20231 min read
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All Emotions Are The Same!!
We innocently believe that certain emotions are to be feared, resisted or pushed away. We may feel some emotions are welcome and some are...
Lindsey Elliott
Sep 18, 20231 min read
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Emotional freedom is built-in to our human design.
Freedom with our emotions is built-in to the human design...it's just we aren't told about it. The freedom that comes with our capacity...
Lindsey Elliott
Sep 16, 20231 min read
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Freedom from people pleasing is easy!
What if freedom from people pleasing is easy? When we clear up a simple misunderstanding about where our feelings are actually coming,...
Lindsey Elliott
Sep 12, 20231 min read
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Why there is nothing wrong with you: how every human is brilliantly designed.
When we believe who we are is our thoughts, feelings, emotions and behaviours, it can be really hard to not believe that we need to 'fix'...
Lindsey Elliott
Jul 19, 20231 min read
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MEASURING UP and who we a really are.
I recently had my 50th birthday, where this photo was taken. A half century of life lived. It’s got me somewhat reflective and...
Lindsey Elliott
Jul 17, 20234 min read
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Where does a sense of worthiness come from?
We innocently believe that our sense of worthiness or good enough-ness comes from outside of us, or from what others think of us. But...
Lindsey Elliott
Jun 29, 20231 min read
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Self-worth and people pleasing
We innocently believe that if we can keep everyone happy, and liking us, we'll feel good about ourselves. However searching for a sense...
Lindsey Elliott
Jun 29, 20231 min read
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Could it be that our own self-evaluation and ‘improvement’ is what's making us unhappy?
When we focus the spotlight of our attention on the question 'How am I doing?' out of dissatisfaction with ourselves, it inevitably leads...
Lindsey Elliott
May 11, 20231 min read
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Self-improvement, goals and insecurity.
When we tie our self-esteem to our achievements, actions, or goals, we're walking on fragile ground. We have to keep striving to meet...
Lindsey Elliott
May 4, 20231 min read
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Ask Me Anything: dealing with criticism from others
Carla finds it really difficult when she receives criticism from others, and finds she thinks about it over and over. She wishes she...
Lindsey Elliott
Apr 26, 20231 min read
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Part 2: Why all addiction works the same way
In part 2 of this video, I do a quick recap of part 1 about the cycle of addiction and how all addictions are the same in nature. Once...
Lindsey Elliott
Apr 24, 20231 min read
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All addiction works the same way- part one
If we believe that our addiction, or habit, is ‘worse’ than other people it can lead to us to feel isolated, separate and lonely…which...
Lindsey Elliott
Apr 20, 20231 min read
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