Unlocking More Time and Ease in Your Life: A Four-Part Video Series Have you ever felt like your mental to-do list is endlessly expanding, leaving you feeling overwhelmed and drained? Imagine if you could lighten that load and reclaim your time and energy for what truly matters. In this transformative four-video series, we embark on a journey to explore major life areas that often consume our precious resources when we believe we must manage or control them. Discover a New Pe

Doe your mind do what my mind likes to do? Think it's a crystal ball?! Minds have ZERO crystal ball capabilities but still love to pretend they know about the future and what's going to happen 🙃 We can't stop this from happening but we don't have to buy into it or believe it. We can simply notice that the mind is talking this way, and go do something else, while it chats away 😉 Like this video? Please like and subscribe to my YouTube channel . Please sign up to my mailing

If you've got a mind that is busy, always on the go, and tends to overthink it can be hard to see there is another part of us we can also pay attention to. It doesn't go anywhere, it simply gets covered over by all the noise 🤩 Let me know in comments if this resonates with you x Like this video? Please like and subscribe to my YouTube channel . Please sign up to my mailing list to receive new videos as they are released, exclusive offers AND my free e-book ‘Navigating Chang

Feeling insecure and believing we are responsible for other people's feelings often go hand-in-hand. But it doesn't have to be this way. If you are ready to find freedom from this, people pleasing and more, join my upcoming 4-week course, You Are Enough . We start on 31st October 2023. I would love for you to join me x Like this video? Please like and subscribe to my YouTube channel . Please sign up to my mailing list to receive new videos as they are released, exclusive off

People who don't like making mistakes often believe their self-esteem is directly impacted by how well we do in life. But what if this correlation isn't true? And that making mistakes is how we learn and grow as adults, not just as little kids. I'll be exploring this and so much more in my upcoming 4-week course, You Are Enough . If you hate making mistakes, this could be just the course for you! We start on 31st October 2023. I would love for you to join me x Like this video

This question was sent to me by someone in my community, looking for some help and support with her experience of stuttering. This video will also be helpful for anyone who has an external circumstance that is unlikely to change, such as a long-term health condition, or a relationship that is unlikely to change. I also speak about those of us who have anxiety around speaking up for ourselves, or don't say what we really want to. If you worry about what other people will th

Worrying about what other people think of you is a common symptom when we feel insecure and have low self-esteem. There is a 'reason' for...

If you try this one thing, it could significantly help harmony within your relationships. Leave me a comment below if you give it a go, or if you recognise you think you know what someone else is thinking. Like this video? Please like and subscribe to my YouTube channel . Please sign up to my mailing list to receive new videos as they are released, exclusive offers AND my free e-book Lessen Your Stress. If you are ready for change in your relationship, work with me in my Cha

We innocently believe that certain emotions are to be feared, resisted or pushed away. We may feel some emotions are welcome and some are...

PLEASE NOTE: I had technical issues with the recording of this video. The sound and video do not sync and so you won't be able to see my speaking in this one. So sorry! Hope you enjoy listening instead. Maria has sent me a great question about feeling triggered by someone who didn't respond to her as expected. She says she can see the story that her mind is making about it but that it's still painful to have to go through it. She is feeling like the solution is to block this

There is almost always a belief lurking underneath, or before, procrastination. Look for the belief and you can unlock the...

Steve has sent in an 'Ask Me Anything' question. He has the opportunity to apply for a promotion at work, that he knows he is capable of, and wants to go for. However he is feeling anxious and worried about getting it wrong and not doing well. So he feels paralysed and held back by how he is feeling. Listen in as I point Steve in a few helpful directions about what is really going on here. Like this video? Please like and subscribe to my YouTube channel . Please sign up to

One of the things that helped me so much with my own experience of anxiety and worry, is understanding how the primary function of the...

In this short video I give a quick tip for what to do if you are overwhelmed or stressed about all you have to get done, or your long...

When we are having a hard time with something in our lives, are in conflict over something, or are stuck in a habit or addiction, we have...

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It seems pretty universal that we have some flavour of not-good-enough running through our minds, but what if we don't have to take this so seriously, as it has NOTHING to do with who we are? Rob asks me a question about low self-esteem and how he has struggled with this his whole life. Listen in as I talk through a helpful metaphor, (that's why I'm pointing to the cup!) to explain where the experience of low self-esteem comes from, and how it hasn't got anything to do with w

Sally has sent in a great question that is one something I share with all my clients. She asks: " I've heard lots of people say that there isn't anything 'wrong' with us, there isn't anything to 'fix' and that we are always OK. Whilst I love the idea that this is true, I struggle to believe this when I can't stop binge eating. I know it's detrimental to my health and wellbeing. How can this not need to be fixed?" Listen in to hear my reply, and see my lovely diagram :)

It's a common and innocent misunderstanding that worrying about things, or feeling anxious, is in someway keeping us and our loved ones...

In this 'Ask Me Anything' question, Jane asks: "I have two young children and am terrified that I will die young and this would be such a big trauma in their lives. What if this happens and they can't cope? How would this impact the rest of their lives? I feel stuck with this and am worried and obsessed about my own health so I don't become ill. It feels so scary and miserable." Listen in as I point to nature of how our minds work, how they are trying to keep us safe but in