In this short video, I explore a pattern I see so often—especially in those of us who are thoughtful, motivated, or on any kind of self-development path: the belief that being hard on ourselves is necessary for change. We’re often told (directly or indirectly) that pushing, striving, and self-criticism are what keep us on track—whether it’s with our health, career, relationships, or personal goals. But what if that pressure isn’t helping? I talk about: Why self-criticism feel

In this short video, I share a powerful personal story about one of my closest friends, who is currently facing a potentially life-altering health crisis. It’s a stark and emotional example—but also a deeply human reminder of something important: 💡 We are far more resilient than we think. I explore: Why we think  we can’t handle certain things—and why that’s just the mind talking The difference between imagining a crisis and actually living through one How real strength show

There was a time in my life when I believed it was my job to manage my emotions. To make sure I only felt the good ones. To avoid or fix the uncomfortable ones. To stay on top of every shift in mood, always analysing and adjusting. It was exhausting and it didn't work. The turning point came when I stopped trying to control my emotional state—and just observed it instead. What I noticed changed everything. My emotions were already flowing on their own. I didn’t need to man

Have you ever felt completely consumed by worry or anxiety about something that hasn’t even happened yet? Your mind racing, trying to figure it out, plan it out, solve it ahead of time? If so, here are two powerful questions you can ask yourself: Is this happening now? Often, our anxious thoughts are about something in the future—a flight, a job interview, a conversation, an event. But when we stop and ask, Is this actually happening right now? , we create space between ours

Always running late? Stressed before the day even starts? It might feel like the problem is your schedule—or your life—but it’s not. What’s really driving the rush and overwhelm is something much deeper (and far more solvable). In this video, I break down what’s actually  happening when you feel frantic, behind, or like you can’t keep up. It’s not about time. It’s about a state of mind that makes everything feel urgent—even when it’s not. This insight can change how you exper

Welcome to a fresh take on the New Year, New You concept. Unlike typical resolutions, this video challenges the myths around self-improvement at the year's end 🎉 As the year comes to a close, many of us start reflecting on the past year and planning for the next. Society and media bombard us with messages that we need to change and improve ourselves, and reach certain standards. But is that really necessary? 🤔 In this video, I'll help you see through the myths and pressures

In this video, I explore the heart of why we often resist feeling the full spectrum of our emotions, even the positive ones like love and joy. It's time to uncover the truth about emotions and release the fear that holds us back. Key Points Covered: Understanding Our Fear:  Discover why we tend to avoid certain emotions and how this fear limits our emotional experience. Myths About Emotions:  Learn about the common misconceptions that make us believe emotions are unsafe or

Hope you enjoy this quick video to help you find more freedom. Like this video? Please like and subscribe to my YouTube channel .   Please sign up  to my mailing list to receive new videos as they are released, exclusive offers AND my free e-book ‘Navigating Change: 3 Keys For Success’. If you are ready for freedom from suffering and overthinking, work with me 1:1 in my Change Catalyst Coaching  programme to help you finally get there.

In this video, I dive into the thought that is causing all of your suffering: This shouldn't be happening. This simple yet powerful belief can manifest in many forms, such as ‘Why me?’ or ‘This isn't fair’, creating a cycle of resistance and pain. I explore how life's events are simply happening and our mind constantly narrates about them. But what if the real issue isn't the thought itself, but our belief in it? I share personal insights and examples, to illustrate how letti

In this video we're diving into a topic that affects many of us: Job security and performance. Have you ever felt insecure about your job title, performance, or salary? You're not alone! In this video, we explore how attaching our sense of worth to external factors like job performance can lead to insecurity. Key Takeaways: - Insecure Thinking: Discover how our thoughts and feelings about job security can change and why this leads to insecurity. - Internal Security: Learn wh

In this episode, we dive into a crucial topic: Relationships at Work. Whether you’re dealing with difficult colleagues or navigating office dynamics, this discussion is packed with insights to help you thrive in your workplace relationships. What we covered: - Understanding Our True Nature: Learn how your feelings come from within and how recognizing this can transform your interactions. - Temporary Thoughts: Discover how giving space to your thoughts can create clarity and r

I’m thrilled to share with you an episode I recorded for the Spirit Of Enquiry podcast. Alongside fellow Change Coach Suzie Yeulett, we delved into a topic that frequently surfaces in our one-on-one coaching work: anxiety at work. Most of us spend a significant portion of our lives at work, and it can often be an environment that magnifies our insecurities, beliefs, and assumptions. This episode is packed with insights that could transform how you experience anxiety in your p

Do you ever feel like your mind is running a marathon, constantly filled with thoughts, worries, and what-ifs? If so, you're not alone. In this video, I dive deep into the concept of overthinking and how it impacts our daily lives. I explore what overthinking really is and the function of our mind in this process. Our minds are incredibly powerful tools, but sometimes they can become like a vacuum bag that's too full—clogged with too much thinking and unable to function effic

Like this video? Please like and subscribe to my YouTube channel Please sign up  to my mailing list to receive new videos as they are released, exclusive offers AND my free e-book ‘Navigating Change: 3 Keys For Success’. If you are ready for freedom from procrastination and motivation issues, work with me 1:1 in my Change Catalyst Coaching  programme to help you finally get there.

Like this video? Please like and subscribe to my YouTube channel .   Please sign up  to my mailing list to receive new videos as they are released, exclusive offers AND my free e-book ‘Navigating Change: 3 Keys For Success’. If you are ready for freedom from procrastination and struggle, work with me 1:1 in my Change Catalyst Coaching  programme to help you finally get there.

Struggling with #procrastination? You already know how to do things you don’t ‘feel’ like doing! Like this video? Please like and subscribe to my YouTube channel .   Please sign up  to my mailing list to receive new videos as they are released, exclusive offers AND my free e-book ‘Navigating Change: 3 Keys For Success’. If you are ready for freedom from procrastination, work with me 1:1 in my Change Catalyst Coaching  programme to help you finally get there.

In this video, I’m diving into the transformative power of being present and living in the now and some of the struggles we can have with this. 🌟 Being fully present can seem like a daunting task, almost impossible at times, right? But what if I told you that while it might be challenging to be present all the time, we can find moments of true presence when we are aware of the mind's role in narrating our experience? In this video, I’ll explore these concepts through a beaut

Video Four in Unlocking More Time and Ease in Your Life: A Four-Part Video Series Welcome to the final instalment of my free four-part series, 'Unlocking More Time and Ease in Your Life'. In this series I explore major life areas that often consume our precious resources when we believe we must manage or control them. Video Four: Trusting Your Inner Compass In this culminating video, I delve into the heart of making decisions with confidence and peace. If you've ever found yo

Have you ever felt like your mental to-do list is endlessly expanding, leaving you feeling overwhelmed and drained? Imagine if you could lighten that load and reclaim your time and energy for what truly matters. In this transformative four-part series, we embark on a journey to explore major life areas that often consume our precious resources when we believe we must manage or control them.   Discover a New Perspective   Each video is designed to guide you through releasing t

Unlocking More Time and Ease in Your Life: A Four-Part Video Series Have you ever felt like your mental to-do list is endlessly expanding, leaving you feeling overwhelmed and drained? Imagine if you could lighten that load and reclaim your time and energy for what truly matters. In this transformative four-video series, we embark on a journey to explore major life areas that often consume our precious resources when we believe we must manage or control them. Discover a New Pe