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“You find peace not by rearranging the circumstances of your life but by realizing who you are at the deepest level” Eckhart Tolle
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Feeling nervous? Here's two tips to help.
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Lindsey Elliott
Jul 20, 20231 min read


Why there is nothing wrong with you: how every human is brilliantly designed.
When we believe who we are is our thoughts, feelings, emotions and behaviours, it can be really hard to not believe that we need to 'fix'...
Lindsey Elliott
Jul 19, 20231 min read


MEASURING UP and who we a really are.
I recently had my 50th birthday, where this photo was taken. A half century of life lived. It’s got me somewhat reflective and...
Lindsey Elliott
Jul 17, 20234 min read


Solving a problem or issue, what if we don’t have to rely only on our intellect?
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Lindsey Elliott
Jul 13, 20231 min read


Overthinking doesn't create solutions.
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Lindsey Elliott
Jul 13, 20231 min read


We can’t get stuck in an emotion (we only believe we can!)
Like this video? Please like and subscribe to my YouTube channel . Please sign up to my mailing list to receive new videos as they are released, exclusive offers AND my free e-book Lessen Your Stress. If you are struggling with emotions, explore my 1:1 coaching programmes which offer a radically different approach so that you can find freedom from anxiety, stress, habits, addiction or low self-esteem. If you would like to explore working together, you can book a complimen
Lindsey Elliott
Jul 13, 20231 min read


Sydney Banks 50th Anniversary Celebration video
As part of the 3PGC 50th Anniversary celebrations of Sydney Bank's enlightenment experience, I was invited to record a video of the...
Lindsey Elliott
Jul 13, 20231 min read


How do I deal with/manage/ resist an urge?
One of the most common questions I'm asked by people I'm working with in my Break Up With Addiction coaching programme is some version of this: How do I deal with/ be with/ manage/ be with or resist an urge to engage in my habit or addiction?? In this video I explore five helpful directions to look in if you want to move away from your habit or addiction, but find urges hard to deal with: 1. What if the habit/ urge is simply the habitual, on-repeat thought loop from the machi
Lindsey Elliott
Jul 13, 20232 min read


Anxiety and worry as a wake-up call.
Most of the time we believe that feelings of worry and anxiety are telling us what we should or shouldn't do in life.... for example,...
Lindsey Elliott
Jul 8, 20231 min read
Ask Me Anything: feeling triggered by other people.
PLEASE NOTE: I had technical issues with the recording of this video. The sound and video do not sync and so you won't be able to see my speaking in this one. So sorry! Hope you enjoy listening instead. Maria has sent me a great question about feeling triggered by someone who didn't respond to her as expected. She says she can see the story that her mind is making about it but that it's still painful to have to go through it. She is feeling like the solution is to block this
Lindsey Elliott
Jul 7, 20231 min read


Realising anxiety isn't coming from our circumstances.
It can seem so convincing that it's our circumstances that create anxious or worried feelings in us....but what if this isn't true? We...
Lindsey Elliott
Jul 6, 20231 min read


Are you trying to cross the road next week? How to deal with anxious or worried thinking.
PLEASE NOTE: I had technical issues with the recording of this video. The sound and video do not sync and so you won't be able to see my...
Lindsey Elliott
Jul 5, 20231 min read


Where does a sense of worthiness come from?
We innocently believe that our sense of worthiness or good enough-ness comes from outside of us, or from what others think of us. But...
Lindsey Elliott
Jun 29, 20231 min read


Self-worth and people pleasing
We innocently believe that if we can keep everyone happy, and liking us, we'll feel good about ourselves. However searching for a sense...
Lindsey Elliott
Jun 29, 20231 min read


Is it selfish to put your own needs ahead of others?
A quick video dispelling the myth that if we put our own needs before others, this means we are selfish. Like this video? Please like and...
Lindsey Elliott
Jun 29, 20231 min read


Ask Me Anything: I struggle to choose to do the 'positive' things in my life.
It's a common human experience to sometimes struggle to choose to do the 'positive' things we know are good for us. It can seem like we choose to do the 'negative' thing instead, over and over. Emma frequently finds herself struggling to choose positive actions despite knowing they are beneficial for her. This repeated pattern of opting for negative choices leaves her perplexed and yearning for an understanding of this behaviour. Emma believes that understanding the underly
Lindsey Elliott
Jun 21, 20231 min read


In a low mood? Be suspicious of your thinking?!
I was caught in quite the emotional sh*t storm the other morning. EVERYTHING in my life looked crap and needing fixing....in the past...
Lindsey Elliott
Jun 9, 20231 min read


Breaking the illusion: the impersonal nature of feelings
What if it were true that our thoughts and feelings might not be as personal or significant as we believe them to be? In this video, I...
Lindsey Elliott
Jun 8, 20231 min read


What if thoughts and feelings aren't personal, or meaningful about who we are?
What if it were true that our thoughts and feelings might not be as personal or significant as we believe them to be? In a brief and...
Lindsey Elliott
Jun 7, 20231 min read


Beliefs aren't 'real'!
It's often our beliefs about ourselves, others and the world that cause us suffering. But belief aren't 'real'. They may feel very real...
Lindsey Elliott
May 25, 20231 min read

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