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“You find peace not by rearranging the circumstances of your life but by realizing who you are at the deepest level” Eckhart Tolle
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Overthinking? Here's something to help.
What if we have overthinking back to front? When we realise what's going on it makes it easier to take the busyness of our minds less...
Lindsey Elliott
Apr 10, 20241 min read


Useful question to ask yourself if you are struggling.
This is a useful question to ask yourself if you are struggling with an event, circumstance or another person 🤗 Like this video? Please...
Lindsey Elliott
Apr 8, 20241 min read


Worry a lot? Use this phrase to reassure yourself.
So much of our experience of anxiety and worry is about things that haven't even happened yet. It can feel useful to think about what might happen in preparation for challenging events or feelings. But so much of what our minds wander off worrying about doesn't actually happen! Use this phrase as a reminder to yourself when you are lost in worry and future based thinking. Like this video? Please like and subscribe to my YouTube channel . Please sign up to my mailing list
Lindsey Elliott
Apr 5, 20241 min read


Nervous about starting something new?
When we feel nervous to start new things, this can sometimes put us off from even trying. But what if feeling nervous isn't something we have to take so seriously? It's simply an evolutionary response our brain has to the unknown and uncertainty. This leaves us free to try whatever the heck new things we want to! Like this video? Please like and subscribe to my YouTube channel . Please sign up to my mailing list to receive new videos as they are released, exclusive offers
Lindsey Elliott
Apr 4, 20241 min read


If you struggle with being present, here's something to help!
Like this video? Please like and subscribe to my YouTube channel . Please sign up to my mailing list to receive new videos as they are released, exclusive offers AND my free e-book ‘Navigating Change: 3 Keys For Success’. If you are ready for freedom from a busy mind and not feeling present, work with me 1:1 in my Change Catalyst Coaching programme to help you finally get there. If you would like to explore working together, you can book a complimentary initial consulta
Lindsey Elliott
Jan 19, 20241 min read


Busy mind? Overthinking? Here's a metaphor to help.
Like this video? Please like and subscribe to my YouTube channel . Please sign up to my mailing list to receive new videos as they are released, exclusive offers AND my free e-book ‘Navigating Change: 3 Keys For Success’. If you are ready for freedom from overthinking and being up in your head, work with me 1:1 in my Change Catalyst Coaching programme to help you finally get there. If you would like to explore working together, you can book a complimentary initial consu
Lindsey Elliott
Jan 18, 20241 min read


'Lived' podcast appearance
I had the pleasure of taking part in a 'roundtable' podcast with two of my fellow Change Coaches, Beka Elle and Dave Fry. We chewed over the nature of the human experience and how understanding this is useful in dealing with anxiety, depression and other mental states. Hope you enjoy the podcast. Leave me any questions or comments below, that might be sparked by our discussion. Please sign up to my mailing list to receive new videos as they are released, exclusive offers AND
Lindsey Elliott
Jan 17, 20241 min read


The last thing we want to do is often the first thing we need to do.
A little video about feeling our feelings! Like this video? Please like and subscribe to my YouTube channel . Please sign up to my mailing list to receive new videos as they are released, exclusive offers AND my free e-book ‘Navigating Change: 3 Keys For Success’. If you are ready for freedom with feeling your feelings, work with me 1:1 in my Change Catalyst Coaching programme to help you finally get there. If you would like to explore working together, you can book a c
Lindsey Elliott
Jan 17, 20241 min read


The Real Story Behind Procrastination
The Cambridge dictionary definition of procrastination is: ‘ the act of delaying something that must be done, often because it is unpleasant or boring ’. I would also add to that, ‘ something we believe is hard or we won’t be able to achieve or complete’. Almost all of us will have experienced doing something trivial or mindless instead of getting on with the task we really need to be doing. We might find ourselves putting off writing a report, doing our homework or compet
Lindsey Elliott
Nov 13, 20237 min read


Does Your Mind Think It's A Crystal Ball?!
Doe your mind do what my mind likes to do? Think it's a crystal ball?! Minds have ZERO crystal ball capabilities but still love to pretend they know about the future and what's going to happen 🙃 We can't stop this from happening but we don't have to buy into it or believe it. We can simply notice that the mind is talking this way, and go do something else, while it chats away 😉 Like this video? Please like and subscribe to my YouTube channel . Please sign up to my mailing
Lindsey Elliott
Nov 5, 20231 min read


Resilience and the ability to bounce back is built into us.
If we often feel worried or anxious, and question our ability to cope when something challenging comes along, it can look like we need to protect ourselves from life and it's experiences. But humans are perfectly designed, in that our ability to bounce back, and adjust to the challenges in life, is built into how we work. Like this video? Please like and subscribe to my YouTube channel . Please sign up to my mailing list to receive new videos as they are released, exclusive
Lindsey Elliott
Nov 3, 20231 min read


Noisy, busy, overthinking mind?
If you've got a mind that is busy, always on the go, and tends to overthink it can be hard to see there is another part of us we can also pay attention to. It doesn't go anywhere, it simply gets covered over by all the noise 🤩 Let me know in comments if this resonates with you x Like this video? Please like and subscribe to my YouTube channel . Please sign up to my mailing list to receive new videos as they are released, exclusive offers AND my free e-book ‘Navigating Chang
Lindsey Elliott
Nov 1, 20231 min read


We don't have to 'build' our confidence and self-esteem.
One of the greatest myths that bobs about on socials is that we need to 'build' our self-esteem, confidence and worth. Not only is this hard work and effort, results are rarely long-lasting. What if there is a simpler understanding of our self-esteem that takes away all the hard work and striving? If you are ready to find out, I'll be exploring this and so much more in my upcoming 4-week course, You Are Enough . We start on 31st October 2023. I would love for you to join me x
Lindsey Elliott
Oct 20, 20231 min read


Feeling insecure and responsible for other peoples' feelings.
Feeling insecure and believing we are responsible for other people's feelings often go hand-in-hand. But it doesn't have to be this way. If you are ready to find freedom from this, people pleasing and more, join my upcoming 4-week course, You Are Enough . We start on 31st October 2023. I would love for you to join me x Like this video? Please like and subscribe to my YouTube channel . Please sign up to my mailing list to receive new videos as they are released, exclusive off
Lindsey Elliott
Oct 19, 20231 min read


Freedom and permission to make mistakes.
People who don't like making mistakes often believe their self-esteem is directly impacted by how well we do in life. But what if this correlation isn't true? And that making mistakes is how we learn and grow as adults, not just as little kids. I'll be exploring this and so much more in my upcoming 4-week course, You Are Enough . If you hate making mistakes, this could be just the course for you! We start on 31st October 2023. I would love for you to join me x Like this video
Lindsey Elliott
Oct 17, 20231 min read


Thinking you are insecure and have low self-esteem doesn't mean you are!
When we experience a lot of insecure thoughts about ourselves, or have think we aren't good enough, we can believe this means we ARE insecure and need to fix ourselves. The commentary that goes on in your head, about YOU and how you are doing, makes it all seem to real. But what if this the commentary in your head isn't speaking the truth, and doesn't mean you are insecure? Feeling secure and confident has nothing to do with what goes through our minds. I'll be exploring this
Lindsey Elliott
Oct 13, 20231 min read


Ask Me Anything: I'm anxious and not reaching my potential because I stutter.
This question was sent to me by someone in my community, looking for some help and support with her experience of stuttering. This video will also be helpful for anyone who has an external circumstance that is unlikely to change, such as a long-term health condition, or a relationship that is unlikely to change. I also speak about those of us who have anxiety around speaking up for ourselves, or don't say what we really want to. If you worry about what other people will th
Lindsey Elliott
Oct 12, 20231 min read


Do you worry about what other people think of you?
Worrying about what other people think of you is a common symptom when we feel insecure and have low self-esteem. There is a 'reason' for...
Lindsey Elliott
Oct 11, 20231 min read


We don't need to 'manage' our emotions.
As adults we often believe we need to manage how we feel, move an feeling on, or in some way be responsible for how we feel. But what if...
Lindsey Elliott
Sep 30, 20231 min read


Busting the motivation myth!
Many of the clients I work with feel they need support with motivation to reach their goals. They believe they need to build their...
Lindsey Elliott
Sep 28, 20231 min read

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