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Why That Critical Voice in Your Head Isn’t the Truth About Your ADHD
Ever feel like there’s a persistent, critical voice in your head constantly pointing out where you’ve fallen short? If you’ve spent years navigating diagnosed or undiagnosed ADHD, it’s all too easy to internalise that chatter, mistakenly believing that struggles with executive function mean you’re unintelligent, incapable, or somehow broken. In the latest episode of Gifted with ADHD, host Juliet sits down with Certified Change Coach Lindsey Elliott to unpack the mechanics of
Lindsey Elliott
Oct 21 min read


Always Busy? Why Your Mind Might Be Busier Than Your Life
If your answer to "How are you?" is usually "Busy," it might not be your life that needs looking at. It might be your thinking about it.
Lindsey Elliott
Sep 254 min read
Self-Blame Only Lives in Your Thinking, Not in You
If you are someone who has spent years working on yourself, reading numerous books, always got a course on the go, trying all the techniques, there can be a subtle thought running underneath all of it. Something like: there is something wrong with me that I need to fix. It kind of makes sense. You have tried so many things and none of them have quite stuck, so the mind decides the problem must be you. Something deeper, harder to reach, something that makes you the exception.
Lindsey Elliott
Sep 103 min read


Low Self-Esteem Isn’t the Problem: Why You Feel Like You’re Not Enough
Many women believe they need to build more confidence. So they spend years working on themselves. Reading books. Taking courses. Trying to become a better, more secure version of who they are. But what if the real issue is not low self-esteem at all? What if the problem is simply believing the thoughts that say you are not enough? If your worth was never created by thought, it cannot actually be reduced by it either. In this podcast conversation with Becca Gardner on The Thou
Lindsey Elliott
Mar 151 min read
The Truth About Feeling “Good Enough”
I recently watched the Victoria Beckham documentary, and one moment at the end really struck me because it captures the heart of what I help people see in my work. In the final scene, David asks Victoria why she still feels she has something to prove, and he suggests that maybe she’s trying to prove to herself that she’s good enough. It’s such a powerful reflection of what so many of us do — chasing success, approval, or achievement in the hope that one day we’ll finally fee
Lindsey Elliott
Nov 2, 20251 min read
Stop Waiting - You're More Ready Than You Think!
In this short video, I’m out in the field (literally!) with my dog Ash, sharing a few thoughts on procrastination—why we do it, what it means, and how to move through it. Whether you're putting off a difficult conversation, hesitating on a life change, or just stuck in that familiar cycle of "I'll deal with it later," this is a gentle encouragement for you. I talk about: Why our minds resist change (even when we want it) How fear and hesitation are part of the process—not a
Lindsey Elliott
Aug 1, 20251 min read


4-part teeny-tiny video series: Why we don't need to fear 'fear'
This is a concise four-part video series titled "Why We Don't Need to Fear 'Fear'. Each video in this series is only one minute long and...
Lindsey Elliott
May 11, 20231 min read


Ask Me Anything: frozen in fear about setting up my business
Sandra asks me to speak about her feeling frozen in fear about setting up her business. She doesn't know how to get clients into her business, or what steps to take. She is scared that she will set it up and no one will want her services. Even if you aren't fearful about setting up business, if you have something else you are anxious or fearful about, this video will help you too. Like this video? Please like and subscribe to my YouTube channel . Please sign up to my mailin
Lindsey Elliott
Mar 30, 20231 min read


Dealing with expectations and disappointments
Having expectations and then feeling disappointed if they don't come to fruition seems part and parcel of being human. Sometimes we can...
Lindsey Elliott
Mar 2, 20231 min read

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