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“You find peace not by rearranging the circumstances of your life but by realizing who you are at the deepest level” Eckhart Tolle
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How our children can't make us feel anything.
When our children misbehave or don't listen, it can be really seductive to believe that this is causing our feelings of stress, anger,...
Lindsey Elliott
Jan 16, 20201 min read
Help with tricky relationships
I explore here what I have seen about conflict within relationships, that I hope will be useful for you - How we all live in different...
Lindsey Elliott
Dec 19, 20191 min read
Melting the ice of our beliefs.
When we understand how things work, generally we can work with them better. For example, when we know how a smart phone or laptop works...
Lindsey Elliott
Nov 22, 20195 min read
What if what we think about ourselves isn't true?
Who we think we are is always changing, ebbing and flowing. And as such, we don't have to take this seriously or try to fix/change...
Lindsey Elliott
Nov 21, 20191 min read
Can we be OK with not feeling OK?
I'm talking here about the nature of the human experience, where our feelings and low moods really come from, and if we can be OK with...
Lindsey Elliott
Nov 14, 20191 min read
How thinking about the future is futile, and can trip us up.
We all do it. Find ourselves thinking about the future, imagining conversations we might have with people, or scenarios we may be faced...
Lindsey Elliott
Oct 25, 20195 min read
How our experience is created within us.
In this video I am discussing how our experience of the outside world, events, people and life is created within us, and doesn't come...
Lindsey Elliott
Oct 24, 20191 min read
Recognising wisdom and intuition
In this video I talk about how to discern between listening to our wisdom, and listening to our 'personal' thinking. I give examples from...
Lindsey Elliott
Oct 17, 20191 min read
All about emotions and feelings.
In this video I talk about emotions and feelings: where they really come from, and what to do (or not!) about them. Please feel free to...
Lindsey Elliott
Oct 11, 20191 min read
Self-adhesive labels and the Manager in your head
I want you to imagine, if you will, a light bulb covered in hundreds of sticky notes. Written on the notes is variety of words such as:...
Lindsey Elliott
Oct 11, 20195 min read
What is real, and what is illusion? And how can this help us in our lives.
Over the many years that I have been exploring the spiritual side of life, one of the concepts that has, quite frankly, baffled me is the...
Lindsey Elliott
Sep 27, 20195 min read
How the mind works and our true nature.
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Lindsey Elliott
Sep 20, 20191 min read
Do you find yourself saying "I'm stressed; I'm a worrier; I have too much to do"?
Almost every human being on earth experiences stress, worry and overwhelm. And as a consequence we can find ourselves frequently saying...
Lindsey Elliott
Sep 17, 20192 min read
Being human: understanding our emotions.
Like all of life, we humans are a paradox. We are both human (with a physical body, senses, thoughts, beliefs, emotions), as well as...
Lindsey Elliott
Sep 12, 20194 min read
The self we are trying to fix doesn't exist.
This post is for all you self-help addicts out there…. This sort of quote used to confuse the hell out of me! And yet some years later...
Lindsey Elliott
Sep 10, 20192 min read
What if, what you think isn't personal?
I’m going to say something potentially controversial, but also potentially liberating. What if what you think, the thoughts that pass...
Lindsey Elliott
Sep 9, 20192 min read
Urgent thinking
You know the kind of thinking I am talking about….it whirls around, and around in your head, and demands that you do something about this...
Lindsey Elliott
Jul 26, 20192 min read
What if self-evaluation is the source of your unhappiness?
I have to fess up. I am a recovering self-evaluation/self-help addict. Over time I have had a series of insights that has led me to see...
Lindsey Elliott
Jul 26, 20192 min read
The self-correcting mechanism of the mind
On a day to day basis there is really very little we have to do to keep our bodies running. We have to eat, drink, move, and sleep but...
Lindsey Elliott
Jul 26, 20192 min read
Expectations and disappointment
It is completely OK to be disappointed. It is completely OK to have expectations about life, others, your circumstances. And it is really...
Lindsey Elliott
Jul 26, 20192 min read
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