Video: What If Your Brain Isn’t Broken? Understanding Anxiety and the Human Mind Many people who struggle with anxiety quietly believe there is something wrong with them. They think they are too sensitive. Too reactive. Too quick to panic. But what if your brain is not broken at all? What if it is simply running an older survival system that once helped humans stay alive? Thousands of years ago, the people who noticed danger first were the ones who kept the tribe safe. That s

Video: Why Your Mind Keeps Sending You Anxious Thoughts Most people know how social media algorithms work. Click on one video about anxiety, and suddenly your entire feed is full of them. Your mind is not that different. The more attention you give anxious thoughts, the more your mind assumes they are important. It keeps sending more of them your way. No wonder it can start to feel endless. But what most people have never been told is this: You do not have to engage with ever

Video: You Weren’t Born Anxious: Why Worry Isn’t Your Personality Most people who struggle with anxiety believe it is simply part of who they are. They describe themselves as someone who has always worried. Someone cautious. Someone whose mind never switches off. But if you look closely, something interesting appears. You were not born worrying about your job, your relationships, or your future. When we are young, the mind simply starts finding things to worry about. First it

I recently watched the Victoria Beckham  documentary, and one moment at the end really struck me because it captures the heart of what I help people see in my work. In the final scene, David asks Victoria why she still feels she has something to prove, and he suggests that maybe she’s trying to prove to herself that she’s good enough. It’s such a powerful reflection of what so many of us do — chasing success, approval, or achievement in the hope that one day we’ll finally fee

We’re often told that the way to solve a problem is to think about it — harder, longer, and deeper. But what if that’s actually the thing keeping you stuck? In this short video, I share a simple metaphor that might completely change the way you see overthinking, and help you find clarity when your mind feels full and noisy. 🎥 Watch now to see why thinking less can bring the answers you’ve been looking for. Please sign up  to my mailing list to receive new videos as they are

Video You Are Not Broken Somewhere along the way, many of us picked up the idea that we’re not enough. That we need fixing. That our worth is something to earn or prove. We live in a world obsessed with self-improvement—but what if the constant need to fix yourself is  the problem? In this short, powerful video, I use a simple example—my dog Ash—to remind us of what we’ve forgotten: your worth isn’t based on how you feel, what you’ve been through, or how well you’re doing at

There was a time in my life when I believed it was my job to manage my emotions. To make sure I only felt the good ones. To avoid or fix the uncomfortable ones. To stay on top of every shift in mood, always analysing and adjusting. It was exhausting and it didn't work. The turning point came when I stopped trying to control my emotional state—and just observed it instead. What I noticed changed everything. My emotions were already flowing on their own. I didn’t need to man

Welcome to a fresh take on the New Year, New You concept. Unlike typical resolutions, this video challenges the myths around self-improvement at the year's end 🎉 As the year comes to a close, many of us start reflecting on the past year and planning for the next. Society and media bombard us with messages that we need to change and improve ourselves, and reach certain standards. But is that really necessary? 🤔 In this video, I'll help you see through the myths and pressures

In this video, I'm diving into an important topic for us all: What do I want? As the year draws to a close, it’s a perfect time to reflect on your past year and start contemplating the next. Whether you're setting new goals or contemplating changes, I’m here to guide you to clarify why you want what you want. And importantly, to check if what you want is actually achievable though the goal you desire. *Why It’s Important:* Reflect on your past year and look ahead with clarity

In this video, I explore the heart of why we often resist feeling the full spectrum of our emotions, even the positive ones like love and joy. It's time to uncover the truth about emotions and release the fear that holds us back. Key Points Covered: Understanding Our Fear:  Discover why we tend to avoid certain emotions and how this fear limits our emotional experience. Myths About Emotions:  Learn about the common misconceptions that make us believe emotions are unsafe or

Ask yourself this powerful question if you are caught up in #stress or #anxiety. Like this video? Please like and subscribe to my YouTube channel .   Please sign up  to my mailing list to receive new videos as they are released, exclusive offers AND my free e-book ‘Navigating Change: 3 Keys For Success’. If you are ready for freedom from stress, anxiety and overwhelm, work with me 1:1 in my Change Catalyst Coaching  programme to help you finally get there.

Hope you enjoy this quick video to help you find more freedom. Like this video? Please like and subscribe to my YouTube channel .   Please sign up  to my mailing list to receive new videos as they are released, exclusive offers AND my free e-book ‘Navigating Change: 3 Keys For Success’. If you are ready for freedom from suffering and overthinking, work with me 1:1 in my Change Catalyst Coaching  programme to help you finally get there.

In this video, I dive into the thought that is causing all of your suffering: This shouldn't be happening. This simple yet powerful belief can manifest in many forms, such as ‘Why me?’ or ‘This isn't fair’, creating a cycle of resistance and pain. I explore how life's events are simply happening and our mind constantly narrates about them. But what if the real issue isn't the thought itself, but our belief in it? I share personal insights and examples, to illustrate how letti

In this video we're diving into a topic that affects many of us: Job security and performance. Have you ever felt insecure about your job title, performance, or salary? You're not alone! In this video, we explore how attaching our sense of worth to external factors like job performance can lead to insecurity. Key Takeaways: - Insecure Thinking: Discover how our thoughts and feelings about job security can change and why this leads to insecurity. - Internal Security: Learn wh

In this episode, we dive into a crucial topic: Relationships at Work. Whether you’re dealing with difficult colleagues or navigating office dynamics, this discussion is packed with insights to help you thrive in your workplace relationships. What we covered: - Understanding Our True Nature: Learn how your feelings come from within and how recognizing this can transform your interactions. - Temporary Thoughts: Discover how giving space to your thoughts can create clarity and r

Does it feel like everyone else feels confident and secure? And you are constantly not sure of yourself, don’t feel good enough or think you are worth the best that life has to offer? You may have been trying to feel good enough and secure within yourself by reading books, going on workshops, writing affirmations, journaling, meditating, tapping, clearing out limiting beliefs, clearing away blocks, or pursuing the ‘ideal’ life. But what if it’s much easier and simpler than al

Are you feeling trapped by persistent habits or addiction, despite your efforts to break free? Have traditional approaches left you feeling disillusioned? It's time for a fresh perspective. You may have been told that you simply need to be more disciplined, or have more willpower, in order to change your unwanted habits or addiction, but what if this isn’t true? In this course I explore a different perspective on understanding, and overcoming, habits and addictions. This is

I’m thrilled to share with you an episode I recorded for the Spirit Of Enquiry podcast. Alongside fellow Change Coach Suzie Yeulett, we delved into a topic that frequently surfaces in our one-on-one coaching work: anxiety at work. Most of us spend a significant portion of our lives at work, and it can often be an environment that magnifies our insecurities, beliefs, and assumptions. This episode is packed with insights that could transform how you experience anxiety in your p

Do you ever feel like your mind is running a marathon, constantly filled with thoughts, worries, and what-ifs? If so, you're not alone. In this video, I dive deep into the concept of overthinking and how it impacts our daily lives. I explore what overthinking really is and the function of our mind in this process. Our minds are incredibly powerful tools, but sometimes they can become like a vacuum bag that's too full—clogged with too much thinking and unable to function effic

Like this video? Please like and subscribe to my YouTube channel Please sign up  to my mailing list to receive new videos as they are released, exclusive offers AND my free e-book ‘Navigating Change: 3 Keys For Success’. If you are ready for freedom from procrastination and motivation issues, work with me 1:1 in my Change Catalyst Coaching  programme to help you finally get there.