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In a low mood? Be suspicious of your thinking?!
I was caught in quite the emotional sh*t storm the other morning. EVERYTHING in my life looked crap and needing fixing....in the past...
Lindsey Elliott
Jun 9, 20231 min read
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Breaking the illusion: the impersonal nature of feelings
What if it were true that our thoughts and feelings might not be as personal or significant as we believe them to be? In this video, I...
Lindsey Elliott
Jun 8, 20231 min read
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What if thoughts and feelings aren't personal, or meaningful about who we are?
What if it were true that our thoughts and feelings might not be as personal or significant as we believe them to be? In a brief and...
Lindsey Elliott
Jun 7, 20231 min read
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Beliefs aren't 'real'!
It's often our beliefs about ourselves, others and the world that cause us suffering. But belief aren't 'real'. They may feel very real...
Lindsey Elliott
May 25, 20231 min read
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People pleasing: Discover some surprising truths!
Many of us identify as a ‘people pleaser’ or struggle with saying no. We often believe that in order to be a ‘good person' we have to put...
Lindsey Elliott
May 25, 20232 min read
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4-part teeny-tiny video series: Why we don't need to fear 'fear'
This is a concise four-part video series titled "Why We Don't Need to Fear 'Fear'. Each video in this series is only one minute long and...
Lindsey Elliott
May 11, 20231 min read
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One of the kindest things we can do for ourselves.
One of the kindest things we can do for ourselves is not to believe our own thinking. I know this might seem kinda crazy to suggest this....
Lindsey Elliott
May 4, 20231 min read
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Self-improvement, goals and insecurity.
When we tie our self-esteem to our achievements, actions, or goals, we're walking on fragile ground. We have to keep striving to meet...
Lindsey Elliott
May 4, 20231 min read
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Guest episode on 'Inner Peace and Other Cool Sh*t' podcast
I had a blast recording a podcast episode with the truly delightful, and oh-so-fun and wise @siobhanfriel. In the episode we explored:...
Lindsey Elliott
May 2, 20231 min read
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What if our feelings & emotions are as impersonal as the weather?!
We innocently tend to give our feelings and emotions a lot of meaning. It's part of the job of a mind to apply meaning or a story about...
Lindsey Elliott
Apr 24, 20231 min read
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Why our brains think anxiety and worry is useful
One of the things that helped me so much with my own experience of anxiety and worry, is understanding how the primary function of the...
Lindsey Elliott
Mar 20, 20231 min read
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Why feelings of low self-esteem, and insecurity looks like a problem to be fixed
When we feel insecure, or bad about ourselves, this can look like it's something that we need to sort out. We can innocently think that...
Lindsey Elliott
Mar 7, 20231 min read
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Dealing with expectations and disappointments
Having expectations and then feeling disappointed if they don't come to fruition seems part and parcel of being human. Sometimes we can...
Lindsey Elliott
Mar 2, 20231 min read
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Ask Me Anything: How can it be true there is nothing 'wrong' with us or nothing to fix?
Sally has sent in a great question that is one something I share with all my clients. She asks: " I've heard lots of people say that...
Lindsey Elliott
Feb 8, 20231 min read
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Why anxiety and worry isn't keeping you safe
It's a common and innocent misunderstanding that worrying about things, or feeling anxious, is in someway keeping us and our loved ones...
Lindsey Elliott
Feb 6, 20231 min read
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Ask Me Anything: Being hypervigilant for anxiety (or any other emotion)
Sam sent in a great 'Ask Me Anything' question. She asks: "I read recently about being hypervigilant for certain emotions. I see that I...
Lindsey Elliott
Jan 18, 20231 min read
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Blue Monday/ January blues - what's that all about?!
Today is 'Blue Monday' and whilst on one level we all probably know that this a load of old nonsense made up by marketing companies, the...
Lindsey Elliott
Jan 16, 20231 min read
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Feeling responsible for other people's feelings or happiness
Thinking that we are responsible for how other people feel creates a lot of suffering, and worry in life. We end up saying yes when we...
Lindsey Elliott
Jan 5, 20231 min read
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How do I feel/ sit with/ be with my difficult feelings?
I get asked this question a lot by my clients. It seems quite common that we human folk like to avoid feeling certain feelings. I have...
Lindsey Elliott
Dec 8, 20221 min read
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Coming to terms with disappointment -Changeable Podcast with Dr Amy Johnson
Changeable podcast is such a fantastic resource to support change, and seeing life in a whole new way. I was delighted to be a special...
Lindsey Elliott
Oct 3, 20221 min read
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