UNBOUND:
The End of Working on Yourself
You’re not here because you haven’t tried. You’re here because you’ve tried everything. Years of introspection, therapy, personal development, somatic tools, spiritual practices. And yet — underneath it all — the same question keeps whispering:
Why do I still feel like I’m not enough?
You still question yourself after every conversation. Scan your emotions for signs of what’s wrong, and feel like peace is just beyond your reach — if only you could stick to the right practice, routine, mindset, or tool.
This isn’t because you haven’t tried hard enough. It’s because the premise was flawed from the start.
“I’m exhausted from 25 years of personal growth and improvement. So. Much. Lifetime. spent navel gazing and inner focused on self. You’re right, the more I self evaluate, the more I find what needs to be evaluated. It will never end this ‘onion layer’ peeling.
Listening to you I became aware that gosh, it’s BECAUSE I believed myself not good enough, not loveable, not worthy, not enough that I drove myself intellectually, emotionally, physically, financially, to keep seeking the next elixir that would ‘fix’ me once and for all. All this time I was firmly invested in the belief that to be enough I had to be constantly focused on personal growth. Now I see that I can let all of that go. What a huge relief!
No more personal growth books, webinars, seminars, online courses, …. Let me allow myself to shift from personal growth to self love and acceptance. I AM enough, exactly as I am."
Elise, You Are Enough course participant
What if the answer is simple?
You are not a project. You were never supposed to work on yourself this hard. You’re not here to monitor every thought, decipher every emotion, or track your triggers. You’re here to live.
And until now, life has felt like a constant check-in:
How am I doing? Am I doing it right?
The work we do together dismantles that question at the root.
You’re tired and frustrated. And not because you’re doing it wrong — but because the work never ends if the belief is “I’m not enough.”
Unbound coaching with me is the end of that belief.
This is for you if:
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You’ve “done the work” and still don’t feel at peace
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You’re exhausted from trying to improve, fix, or optimise yourself
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You secretly worry there’s something unfixable about you
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You want to stop analysing every thought and emotion
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You’ve reached a point where the next self-help concept just makes you tired
You want to feel like yourself again without turning your whole life into a personal development project
This is not more self-help.
This is not coaching-as-usual. This is the clean break from the self-improvement industry. This is 1:1 coaching that unhooks you from the belief that you need fixing.
You’ll see your own mind clearly without turning it into something to control.
You’ll feel your emotions without making them mean something about your worth.
You’ll begin to move through life without second-guessing every instinct.
"When I started the coaching programme, I was struggling with the menopause and experiencing anxiety at a level I hadn't felt before. I was trying yet again to put myself on the right path to good health and well being but felt instead like I existed in a doom loop. Almost in desperation, I decided to get help through a different approach.
By looking at everything through this new lens I feel at peace with myself and trust myself in a way I never have before which is just so liberating. I no longer feel I am struggling against myself and as a result feel stronger and more complete and more part of everything around me. I also no longer feel inferior to people or see an inevitable risk of power imbalance in my relationships and this has been so freeing. I am also celebrating embracing opportunities and responding more honestly to situations because, with emotion and thinking neutralised, I can decide instinctively and not waste time working through potential catastrophic consequences that used to hold me up." Helen UK
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UNBOUND:What's included
COACHING
6-MONTHS OF PRIVATE 1:1 COACHING:
Private sessions via Zoom (75 minutes)
First session: 90 minutes
The first six sessions are weekly to build momentum
After that, sessions continue regularly across the remaining months
PERSONALISED
RESOURCES
Weekly personalised resources so you can deepen your understanding in between sessions.
CALL RECORDINGS
Recordings of all coaching sessions so that you can re-watch them at any time and have a 'library' of resource to refer to
LIFE
EXPERIMENTS
After each session you’ll receive a simple lens or experiment to notice in real life — at work, in conversations, in moments where you would normally overthink.
This is where the shift becomes lived, not just understood.
Bonus Call:
Integration session (90 min)
One month after the six months end, we reconnect for 90 minutes to reflect on what's changed, what feels solid, and what's still settling. This isn't an add-on. It's part of how the work lasts.
HOW IT WORKS
Unbound is a 6 month 1:1 coaching experience. Everything is tailored to you but what changes is always the same:
A radical shift in how you see yourself, that makes all the “fixing” irrelevant.
Here’s a summary of what’s included:
6 Months of 1:1 Coaching Calls
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6 months together, personally guided by me
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First session: 90 minutes
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The first six sessions are weekly to build momentum
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After that, sessions continue regularly across the remaining months
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Calls are on Zoom and recorded, so you can revisit insights whenever you want.
Weekly Life Experiments (Instead of Homework)
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At the end of each call, we’ll agree on a Life Experiment — a way to look in your own life and see if what we explored holds true.
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This isn’t homework or another thing on your list.
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It’s about noticing, in real time, how your experience shifts when you stop fixing.
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Transformation happens when the truth proves itself in your daily life.
Resources You Can Use in Daily Life
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Each week, I’ll send you a resource — a podcast, audio, or video.
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I’ll tailor the resources to where you are in our conversations and your understanding.
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These are designed to integrate effortlessly into your life — you can listen while walking, driving, or moving through your day.
The programme is intentionally set up this way to help you stay connected and engaged with what you’re seeing, even as you move through everyday life.
What changes?
You stop trying to change yourself. And in that space, your clarity and confidence returns. You start recognising your own yes and no without doubting it. You move through decisions without overthinking what you just said, did, or chose. You have emotions without turning them into problems.
You feel like you can breathe, not because your life got easier, but because you're not using all your energy managing yourself anymore.
VIP 6 Month Programme Investment:
£6,000
Or if you wish to spread the cost of the investment:
£1,500 deposit followed by 5 x monthly payments of £1,000 (total £6,500)
For payments made through PayPal, whether international or within the UK, please be aware that a 5% administrative fee will be added to cover the charges incurred by PayPal.
Ready? Not to work harder. Not to become a better version of yourself.
But to be done with fixing yourself and to see what’s been true all along:
You’re already enough. You always were.
Book your free 45-minute 'I'm Done' Call with me and let this be the last time you ask if you're the problem.
“I could not have predicted when we started working together what a profound affect our sessions would have on my life. I worry less, I overthink things less, I smile more. I feel much calmer and my mind feels much quieter more often. It is such a simple teaching but initially quite difficult to get your head around and really see it. I had so many questions which you answered with such kindness and compassion. I felt comfortable opening up to you and telling you all my deepest darkest secrets and never felt any judgement. And I really appreciated the WhatsApp support so that I could ask you questions as they arose in the moment. I have never enjoyed a therapeutic process so much, or been so sad for it to come to an end. I have cried a lot... but also laughed a lot. Thank you so much” Anne W, U.K
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